Humming and listening to the song “chadi mujhe yari teri aisi, jaise daaru desi”, while writing this
article. Quite true and apt in my life situation, friends have always been
spark in my life, they gave me oxygen, so I breath, they gave me importance, so
I trust and they exploited me and helped me to become ME. Few moments were
worth cherishing, when I was lowest best in my life and they hugged me so
tightly and assured me, what may come, they will never leave me!! But…
I always believed in my upbringing period that friends come
and go, life never stops for anyone. You lose one friend at one stage of life
and make many more. But few friends make a permanent residence in your heart. I
recently read on Facebook. “Love is not
for lovers, they are also for friends, who love each other more than lovers”…
Friendship day is nearby but I have no one to celebrate with… It wasn’t like
that 2 months ago..
I used to have a group of 3 people including me, many people
came in our group and left but we 3 always remained united. We went to many
trips and had an amazing level of understanding, which I never had with anyone
before. Never thought, I will ever have (in real sense) -3AM- friends in my
life. Be it my professional tough days or personal trauma, I always found them
near me. We went to many trips, starting from Haveli trip to celebrate one year
of your friendship on 15th Dec, 2010. Then, Rishikesh and Palampur
in 2011 and last trip was Shri mata Vaishno Devi in 2012.
Guess, everything comes in life with expiry date. We are not
at all in touch with each other, though we are very much living in same city and
with so much social networking sites available, nobody knows anything about each
other. One may call it misunderstanding but in real terms, “raita fel gaya”. So much of complex
emotions, so much of expectations, so much of admirations… could not handle
them anymore and we decided to get separated.
It’s over and all over… we all have moved on in our life and
trying hard to make new friends but missing them a lot… all masti that we did
together, wo chai ki chuski, wo car-o-bar… I am gonna miss forever and ever… May be, all happens for some good :)
